Social Media Dos & Don’ts — Welcome to the Algorithm Hunger Games
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Moment of honesty: I hate social media. I live and breathe it, I understand it deeply, and as a vibrant digital brand - it’s part of the game. We learn the rules, we play, then the rules change. Again. Constantly. Social media is exhausting. And yet… it’s not going anywhere. If you’ve ever felt like social media is a never-ending marathon of creating, posting, engaging, and reacting for what feels like no real payoff, you’re not alone. We’re all living in the Social Media Algorithm Hunger Games.
And here’s the part that matters more than the frustration: social media isn’t going away anytime soon. That means opting out isn't an option. You want free or low-cost visibility, connection, and growth? ...Join us in the Hunger Games.
So the real skill isn’t loving social media… it’s about understanding how the system works. Let's talk social media Dos and Don'ts. So you can use it while also seeing it for what it is.
You’re Not the Problem — You’re just the Data
Here’s the truth most people miss: social media doesn’t punish you randomly. It responds to patterns. You are not being judged. You’re simply being read. Within this greater system, the algorithm is just set up to measure activity and user behavior - what you repeat, what you avoid, how consistently you show up, and whether your posts communicate to a receptive audience over time. Those patterns quietly teach the algorithm how to feel about your content.
Most small business owners don’t realize they’re training the system every time they post. And often? They’re teaching it exactly what they don’t want it to learn: inconsistency, confusion, and reactive moves that feel strategic but aren’t. This isn’t about blaming you. It’s about demystifying the system so you can work with it — not against it.
What We’re Covering in This Lesson - Social Media Dos & Don'ts
In this Ember Channel video, we break down:
The real social media do’s and don’ts that matter in 2025
What’s changed in the algorithm (yes, again) — and what hasn’t
Why so many brands feel like they’re “doing everything right” while getting nowhere
How to build a system that actually works instead of exhausting you
This isn’t trends. It isn’t a list of hacks or “post X to go viral.” It’s the boring, repeatable habits that quietly compound — either building momentum or slowly sabotaging your visibility without you realizing it. The goal isn’t to post more, try harder, or fill every empty moment with content. The goal is to stop fighting the platform and start using it intentionally, on your terms, with a system that actually works with the system instead of being worn down by it.
Social Media Doesn’t Have to Feel Like Punishment
The first step to using the platforms well is to stop thinking of the algorithm as some unknowable force out to get you. It’s not magic, and it’s not personal. It’s a system - and systems respond to patterns. Show up with an intentional rhythm and things start to move. Not overnight - but measurably. This lesson is about building that kind of visibility — without burnout, without hustle culture vibes, and definitely without the emotional rollercoaster that comes with feeling like the platforms are a personal performance review.
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Questions, wins, or a-ha moments? Email me anytime at hello@roseemberfoundry.com
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